11 Ways to Soften into Self-Care this Love Day
Reframe Valentine’s Day by falling in love with yourself – by Alexandra Wenman
With all the focus on consumerism and canned romance, Valentine’s Day can sometimes feel like it’s missing the point entirely. Try these self-love tips to help centre yourself back in your heart and remember you are worthy of love because you are love personified.
Treat yourself to a lie in or a day off work
Cozy up with a cup of heart-opening cacao
Book a day spa or massage for some pampering
Take yourself out on a date to somewhere you’ve always wanted to go
Do something creative or make your own piece of inspired self-love art
Write yourself a love letter or poem to honour all your best qualities
Buy yourself some flowers or go for a nature walk and hug a tree to soak up the love of mama Earth
Cook your favourite meal and eat it by soft candlelight, while listening to heart-opening mantras
Phone a dear friend for a deep and meaningful chat
Run a lovely warm bath with rose oil, rose petals and candles
Write your own self-care list and make self-love a priority
“To love someone else is easy, but to love what you are, the thing that is yourself, is just as if you were embracing a glowing, red-hot iron; it burns into you and that is very painful. Therefore, to love somebody else in the first place is always an escape which we all hope for, and we all enjoy it when we are capable of it. But in the long run, it comes back on us. You cannot stay away from yourself forever. You have to return, have to come to that experiment, to know whether you really can love. That is the question - whether you can love yourself. And that will be the test.”
― Carl Jung
Card pull for Valentine’s Day
From Archangel Fire Oracle by Alexandra Wenman (Findhorn Press)
Card 1 - To enhance self-love: Archangel Chamuel
Angel of love, Chamuel, is here to remind you that you are the embodiment of love itself. If you are seeking love, become it in order to magnetise it to you.
Card 2 - To access your true desires / passions: Archangel Haniel
Haniel is here to lead you across the bridge to your true desires and dreams. If you ask her, she will help you let go of anything that isn’t serving you for your highest good and show you your true passions.
Card 3 - To support your next steps: Archangel Jophiel
Beautiful Jophiel wishes you to connect more to your joy and have some fun. Life is too short to keep your heart heavy. Remember to lighten up and laugh.
Card 4 - Action to take: Archangel Mirabiel
Mirabiel urges you to look in the mirror and see your own inner and outer beauty. Instead of focusing on your flaws, see all the best bits and let your light shine out from you. The more you share love, the more it is returned to you, so try to see the light in everyone.
Card 5: The likely outcome: Archangel Zuriel
Connecting with the love in your heart daily will help to ease stress and bring your life back into balance. If you are in a state of worry, surrender your cares to the angels and the divine and come back into trust that all will be well. You may not have the solution, but your higher self always does, so hand it over and let your mind settle into peaceful calm.
Loved this! Thank you
Thank you,very timely particularly the self healing.Was good to remember and actually get back to a regular practice.There is always more healing to do and this is true for me at this time.Water rising and cleansing my Soul.